Relationship Self-Assessment Tests

Acts of Service

For people who speak this love language, actions speak louder than words. They feel loved when their partner goes out of their way to do something helpful for them.

How to Express Acts of Service

Offer to help with chores, run errands, or take on a task that you know your partner dislikes. Do these things with a positive spirit and without being asked.

How You Might Receive Love as Acts of Service

If this is your love language, you may feel unloved when your partner creates more work for you or fails to follow through on commitments. Broken promises can be deeply hurtful.

Challenges and Considerations

Understanding and navigating the challenges of this love language is crucial for a healthy relationship. For example, if your partner's primary love language is Quality Time, it's important to be mindful of distractions and actively create moments of focused connection.